When Violence Shakes Our Core: Understanding Collective Trauma and Moral Injury in an Age of Political Extremism

Collective trauma and moral injury occur when public violence violates our sense of justice, fairness, and safety. Learn how ideological violence impacts the nervous system, relationships, and public trust, and discover neuroscience-informed ways to restore resilience and connection.

When the World No Longer Feels Safe

What happens to our minds and bodies when we witness political assassinations, mass shootings, or public acts of ideological violence? Even if we are not physically present, the constant exposure to disturbing images and stories through news and social media can leave us shaken. This phenomenon, often referred to as collective trauma, goes beyond individual suffering and affects communities, nations, and cultures.

Paired with collective trauma is the concept of moral injury, the distress we feel when witnessing acts that violate deeply held beliefs about fairness, justice, and humanity. When we see public leaders assassinated, institutions shaken, or communities torn apart by violence, the nervous system reacts not only with fear but also with profound grief, disillusionment, and confusion about what the future holds.

What Is Collective Trauma?

Collective trauma describes the psychological wounds experienced by large groups of people following catastrophic or violent events. Unlike individual trauma, collective trauma extends beyond personal experience and becomes embedded in the shared psyche of a community or society.

Events such as political assassinations, terrorist attacks, or racially motivated violence are not just personal tragedies; they reverberate across communities, sparking fear, division, and despair. People begin asking:

     — How could this happen in our country?
     — What does this say about who we are becoming?
    — Can we trust our institutions to keep us safe?

These questions reflect not just fear, but a deeper existential wound to our sense of belonging and collective identity.

Understanding Moral Injury

While collective trauma speaks to the shared wound, moral injury captures the internal conflict many individuals feel when they witness violence that contradicts their values.

Traditionally studied in combat veterans, moral injury is now being recognized as a widespread phenomenon. When ideological violence erupts, whether a politically motivated assassination or an extremist attack, observers often feel powerless, betrayed, and disoriented.

Moral injury can manifest as:

     — A loss of trust in leaders, institutions, or even neighbors.
    — A sense of disillusionment with society.
     — Anger, shame, or guilt for being unable to prevent harm.
    — Emotional numbness or withdrawal from public life.

The nervous system, designed to protect us, interprets these events as a threat not just to survival but to meaning itself. Neuroscience shows that when core beliefs are shattered, the brain’s stress circuits (including the amygdala and hippocampus) activate repeatedly, leaving us hypervigilant and exhausted.

The Neuroscience of Violence in the Media

Why does watching violent news coverage leave us feeling so distressed, even if we were not there? Research suggests that the brain does not fully distinguish between direct experience and vividly portrayed events. Repeated exposure to graphic videos or divisive rhetoric activates the sympathetic nervous system, triggering fight-or-flight responses.

This leads to:

      — Hyperarousal: difficulty sleeping, increased irritability, constant scanning for danger.
     — Emotional numbing: shutting down feelings to cope with overwhelming input.
    — Disrupted connection: withdrawing from relationships out of mistrust or despair.

Collectively, these reactions mirror what trauma survivors experience. On a societal level, this can fuel polarization, fear, and cynicism, deepening divisions rather than fostering resilience.

How Moral Injury Impacts Relationships and Intimacy

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we frequently observe how public violence infiltrates private life. Clients who consume hours of political news or social media often report feeling emotionally distant from their partners, anxious in their parenting, or disconnected in intimacy.

When the nervous system is caught in cycles of threat response, it becomes difficult to:

     — Stay emotionally regulated in relationships.
     — Engage in physical closeness without fear or tension.
    — Maintain curiosity and empathy in the face of differences.

This is the hidden cost of collective trauma: not only are we shaken by events on the world stage, but our capacity for love, connection, and joy at home is quietly eroded.

National Conversations and Historical Parallels

The assassination of public figures triggers memories of earlier moments of political violence. From the 1960s assassinations of Martin Luther King Jr. and Robert F. Kennedy to more recent extremist attacks, these events have become cultural markers of disillusionment.

Today’s conversations often circle around questions such as:

     — Are we witnessing a new era of political extremism?
    — What does this mean for our democracy, our institutions, and our children’s future?
      — How can communities hold onto hope when violence dominates the headlines?

These national dialogues, while painful, are crucial. They represent a collective attempt to make meaning from tragedy and to resist the numbness that moral injury often creates.

Pathways to Healing Collective Trauma and Moral Injury

The question becomes: What can we do when violence shakes our collective trust? While we cannot prevent every act of extremism, we can strengthen our resilience and reclaim agency in how we respond.

1. Limit Media Exposure

Neuroscience shows that repeated viewing of violent content deepens traumatic imprinting. Choose intentional, limited news check-ins rather than constant scrolling.

2. Engage in Somatic Grounding

Practices like deep breathing, yoga, or mindfulness bring the nervous system back into balance. Somatic resourcing restores a sense of safety in the body, countering hyperarousal.

3. Create Safe Conversations

Talking with trusted people about feelings of betrayal, grief, or fear helps prevent isolation. Collective healing begins in dialogue.

4. Rebuild Trust in Small Circles

While national institutions may feel shaken, focus on strengthening bonds in your family, friendships, and community. Safety is rebuilt relationally.

5. Seek Professional Support

Therapies like EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), Somatic Experiencing, and trauma-informed couples therapy can help resolve the nervous system’s stuck responses and repair intimacy ruptures.

How Embodied Wellness and Recovery Can Help

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in supporting individuals, couples, and families navigating trauma in all its forms, personal, relational, and collective. Our work integrates neuroscience, somatic therapy, and relational healing to help clients:

     — Repair nervous system dysregulation caused by chronic exposure to violence and fear.
    — Address moral injury by creating new pathways of meaning and connection.
    — Restore intimacy and trust within relationships strained by collective trauma.
    — Build resilience practices that empower individuals to engage with the world without becoming overwhelmed.

When ideological violence shakes your sense of safety, there are ways to re-anchor in your body, your values, and your relationships. Collective trauma may be inevitable in a world of political volatility, but how we metabolize it, and whether we grow more fragmented or more connected, remains within our power.

Reclaiming Meaning After Violence

Collective trauma and moral injury remind us that public violence is not just a political or social issue; it is a profoundly human wound. By understanding how these events impact our nervous systems, relationships, and trust in institutions, we can begin to address them with compassion and intention.

Healing is not about ignoring the pain but about transforming it into renewed purpose, deeper connection, and embodied resilience. In this process, we reclaim not only our personal well-being but also our role in shaping the kind of society we long to belong to.

Contact us today to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation with our team of somatic practitioners, trauma specialists, and relationship experts, and start your journey toward embodied connection and a felt sense of safety. 

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References

Litz, B. T., Stein, N., Delaney, E., Lebowitz, L., Nash, W. P., Silva, C., & Maguen, S. (2009). Moral injury and moral repair in war veterans: A preliminary model and intervention strategy. Clinical Psychology Review, 29(8), 695–706. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.cpr.2009.07.003

Porges, S. W. (2011). The polyvagal theory: Neurophysiological foundations of emotions, attachment, communication, and self-regulation. New York: W. W. Norton & Company.

Schlenger, W. E., Caddell, J. M., Ebert, L., Jordan, B. K., Rourke, K. M., Wilson, D., ... & Kulka, R. A. (2002). Psychological reactions to terrorist attacks: Findings from the National Study of Americans’ Reactions to September 11. JAMA, 288(5), 581–588. https://doi.org/10.1001/jama.288.5.581

Trauma, Pattern, and Healing: Are You Operating from Strategy or Presence?

Trauma often creates survival patterns that keep us reacting from strategy rather than presence. Discover how unresolved trauma affects relationships, how the nervous system influences adaptive patterns, and why acknowledging these shifts is the first step toward embodiment, authenticity, and healing.

The Automatic Response 

Do you ever notice yourself reacting in ways that feel automatic, snapping at a loved one, withdrawing when you want to connect, or over-accommodating even when it leaves you resentful? Do you feel stuck repeating patterns that no longer serve you, yet find it difficult to stop? These are not signs of weakness or flaws in your character. They are adaptive survival strategies rooted in early trauma and nervous system conditioning.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we help clients recognize that these “patterns” are protective responses the body once needed to survive overwhelming experiences. The challenge is that when left unexamined, these patterns become default modes of relating that can block intimacy, authenticity, and vitality. Noticing when you are “going into a pattern” is the first step toward shifting into presence, where deeper healing and genuine connection become possible.

How Trauma Creates Adaptive Survival Strategies

Trauma is not only what happened to you; it is also what happens inside of you as a result. When overwhelming experiences occur, especially in childhood, the nervous system adapts by developing survival strategies. These may include fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or more complex patterns such as perfectionism, hyper-independence, emotional shutdown, or over-functioning in relationships.

From a neuroscience perspective, traumatic experiences activate the amygdala, the brain’s alarm system, and suppress the prefrontal cortex, which supports regulation and executive functioning (LeDoux, 2015). Over time, repeated activation wires these patterns into the nervous system. They become automatic, arising faster than conscious thought.

These patterns are adaptive in childhood, helping you survive difficult or unsafe environments. But as adults, they can prevent you from experiencing the safety, connection, and authenticity you long for.

The Cost of Living in Pattern

When survival strategies dominate your nervous system, the present becomes colored by the past. Instead of responding to what is actually happening, you may find yourself reacting to old wounds.

Common signs of “living in a pattern” include:

     — Reacting with disproportionate anger or withdrawal in relationships
    — Feeling emotionally numb or detached when intimacy arises
    — Overworking or over-giving as a way to avoid vulnerability
    — Repeating cycles of unhealthy or unfulfilling relationships
     — Struggling with burnout, anxiety, or chronic stress symptoms

These patterns are often invisible to the person living them. They feel like “just who I am.” Yet they are not your essence; they are strategies your nervous system developed to keep you safe.

Strategy vs. Presence: A Different Way of Being

So how do you know if you are operating from strategy or presence?

     — Strategy feels tight, rigid, urgent, or automatic. You may feel like you have no choice, as if something larger is pulling the strings. The body often contracts, the breath shortens, and thoughts race.
     — Presence feels open, flexible, and connected. You can pause, notice sensations, and respond rather than react. The body feels more spacious, the breath deepens, and emotions can flow without overwhelming you.

Presence is not about eliminating your patterns; it is about developing awareness of when you are in them. By noticing “I am going into a pattern,” you create a pause that invites choice. This is the first step toward embodiment and authenticity.

How Trauma Patterns Affect Relationships

Trauma rarely occurs in isolation; it often happens within relationships, and it is in these relationships where patterns are most vividly revealed. If you grew up in an environment where your needs were unmet, or where expressing anger or sadness was unsafe, you may now:

     — Struggle with trust or vulnerability
    — Feel triggered by conflict or criticism
     — Avoid intimacy or push partners away when closeness feels threatening
    — Lose yourself in caretaking or people-pleasing roles
    — Experience cycles of shame and disconnection after reacting automatically

The tragedy is that these patterns were designed to keep you safe, yet they now block the very closeness you long for.

Questions to Reflect On

     — Do I notice myself shutting down, withdrawing, or spacing out when I feel stressed or criticized?
     — Do I respond to conflict with quick defensiveness or outbursts, even when I don’t mean to?
    — Do I often sacrifice my needs to keep the peace in relationships?
    — Do I feel like I am “performing” rather than being fully myself in social or intimate settings?

These questions are not about judgment; they are doorways into self-awareness.

The Neuroscience of Change

The good news is that the nervous system is not fixed. Thanks to neuroplasticity, we know that new patterns can be created. By engaging in therapies that focus on both the body and the mind, such as EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, or polyvagal-informed therapy, we can help the brain and nervous system “rewire” toward regulation, resilience, and presence (Siegel, 2020).

The vagus nerve plays a central role in this process. When engaged through practices like mindful breathing, grounding, or compassionate connection, the nervous system shifts out of survival mode and into regulation. Over time, this restores the ability to respond from a place of presence rather than strategy.

Steps Toward Embodiment and Authenticity

1. Notice the Shift into Pattern
Awareness is the first step. Simply naming “I am going into pattern” creates space for choice.

2. Pause and Ground
Use your breath, orient to your environment, or place a hand on your body. These simple practices cue safety to the nervous system.

3. Invite Compassion
Remember that your patterns were once intelligent survival strategies. Offer gratitude for their role, even as you learn new ways of being.

4. Practice Relational Safety
Work with a trauma-informed therapist or in safe relationships where you can experiment with presence, boundaries, and vulnerability.

5. Integrate Mind-Body Healing
Approaches like EMDR, somatic therapy, and attachment-focused work help integrate past trauma and restore regulation.

Moving From Strategy to Presence

The journey from pattern to presence is not about erasing the past; it is about integrating it. When you learn to notice your survival strategies without judgment, you begin to reclaim choice. From this place, authenticity and embodiment become possible. You can connect more deeply with yourself and others, and build relationships grounded in safety, intimacy, and truth.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in helping individuals navigate the impact of trauma patterns on the nervous system and relationships. Through somatic therapy, EMDR, and relational healing, we guide clients toward nervous system repair, authentic intimacy, and a more embodied life.

Opening the Door to Presence

Trauma patterns are not flaws; they are survival strategies written into your nervous system. But they do not have to define you. By noticing when you are “going into a pattern,” you open the doorway to presence, resilience, and authentic connection.

Healing begins with awareness, grows with compassion, and deepens with support. You deserve a life guided not by old strategies, but by your embodied presence and authentic self.

Contact us today to schedule a free 20-minute consultation and begin your journey toward embodied connection, clarity, and self-awareness. 

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References

LeDoux, J. (2015). Anxious: Using the brain to understand and treat fear and anxiety. Viking.

Porges, S. W. (2011). The polyvagal theory: Neurophysiological foundations of emotions, attachment, communication, and self-regulation. W.W. Norton.

Siegel, D. J. (2020). The developing mind: How relationships and the brain interact to shape who we are (3rd ed.). Guilford Press.

What Dissociation Feels Like: Understanding Trauma’s Silent Shield and How Therapy Reconnects You to Life

Feeling numb, detached, or like you're watching your life from the outside? Dissociation is a common trauma response that can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself and others. Discover what dissociation feels like, how it impacts relationships and identity, and how trauma-informed therapy can help you reclaim your life. Learn more from Embodied Wellness and Recovery, experts in trauma, nervous system regulation, relationships, and intimacy.

What Dissociation Feels Like: Understanding Trauma’s Silent Shield and How Therapy Reconnects You to Life

Do you ever feel like you’re going through the motions of life but not really living it? Like you’re watching yourself from outside your body, or that you’ve checked out emotionally, but can’t figure out why?

This experience has a name: dissociation. And it’s more common than you might think, especially for people who have experienced trauma.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we work with individuals who feel chronically disconnected, not just from others, but from themselves. For many, this inner distance is a survival response to early or ongoing emotional pain. And while it may have once protected you, it can now leave you feeling numb, isolated, and unseen.

This article explores what dissociation feels like, why it happens, and how therapy, especially trauma-informed and nervous-system-based approaches, can gently guide you back into connection with your body, emotions, and authentic self.

What Is Dissociation?

Dissociation is the nervous system’s way of protecting you from overwhelm. When fight or flight isn’t possible, the body may default to a freeze or “shut down” state, disengaging from intense physical or emotional experiences in order to survive.

In short, dissociation is not a sign of weakness. It’s protection.

Neuroscience shows that when trauma floods the system with too much stimulus or emotion, the brain's prefrontal cortex (responsible for conscious awareness and decision-making) can go offline. The dorsal vagal branch of the parasympathetic nervous system takes over, triggering a state of collapse, numbness, or disconnection (Porges, 2011).

What Dissociation Feels Like

Dissociation is often subtle and hard to recognize, especially if you’ve lived with it for years. It may show up as:

     — Feeling emotionally numb or “dead inside”
     — Zoning out or spacing out frequently
    — Forgetting parts of your day (time loss)
     — Watching yourself from outside your body
    — Struggling to recall important memories
    — Feeling disconnected from your body or sensations
     — Going through life in a dreamlike haze
     — Feeling like you’re not really here

It’s not unusual for people who dissociate to say things like:

     — “It’s like I’m watching my life instead of living it.”
    — “I know I should feel something, but I don’t.”
    — “I keep people at a distance without meaning to.”
    — “Sometimes I feel like I’m not real.”

These experiences can be deeply distressing, especially when compounded by the loneliness of feeling misunderstood, even by those closest to you.

The Invisible Toll: Dissociation and Relationships

Dissociation doesn’t just disconnect you from your emotions; it can also disconnect you from others. Relationships require presence, vulnerability, and the capacity to feel. But when your nervous system is in protective mode, these capacities often feel unsafe or inaccessible.

If you're single and living with dissociation, dating and intimacy can feel especially challenging. You may wonder:

     — Why can’t I connect the way others do?
    — Why do I feel more alone around people than when I’m by myself?
    — Is something wrong with me?

In a world built around coupledom, where social norms assume you should want to be close to someone, living with trauma-related detachment can feel alienating. It’s not that you don’t long for connection; it’s that part of you learned it wasn’t safe.

This internal split between longing and fear, hope and numbness, is at the heart of many trauma survivors’ experiences.

Why Therapy Helps: A Neuroscience-Informed Path to Reconnection

Therapy offers a safe, attuned relationship where all parts of you, numb, scared, disconnected, can begin to feel seen and integrated.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in trauma therapy that incorporates the latest findings from neuroscience, attachment theory, and somatic modalities like:

     — EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)
    — Somatic Experiencing®
    — Parts Work / Internal Family Systems (IFS-informed)
    — Polyvagal-informed therapy
    — Mindfulness and body-based practices

Here’s how therapy supports healing dissociation:

1. Regulates the Nervous System

Through breathwork, grounding, and body awareness, therapy helps shift the nervous system out of dorsal vagal collapse into a more regulated, connected state. This process allows you to feel again, gently and safely.

2. Creates a Safe Relationship for Reconnection

The therapeutic alliance models secure attachment, something many trauma survivors never experienced. This relationship helps rewire the brain’s expectations around connection, safety, and trust.

3. Bridges the Mind-Body Divide

Somatic therapy helps you notice sensations, emotions, and impulses in the body, often the very things dissociation tries to block. By building tolerance for these experiences, you gradually reclaim your full self.

4. Strengthens Your Sense of Self

Over time, therapy helps you develop a more coherent narrative about who you are and where you’ve been. This self-understanding reduces shame, increases agency, and supports more grounded relationships with others.

You Are Not Broken; Your System Adapted

If you’ve spent years feeling checked out, unfeeling, or “different” from others, it’s easy to internalize the belief that you’re damaged or unworthy of love. But the truth is this:

Your body did what it had to do to survive. Dissociation was your nervous system’s way of protecting you when connection felt too dangerous.

What’s different now is that you no longer have to do it alone.

Therapy doesn’t force you to feel everything at once. It offers a slow, respectful unwinding of protective patterns, honoring your body’s pace, your story, and your capacity to choose.

A New Kind of Presence Is Possible

The goal isn’t to be “on” all the time; it’s to come home to yourself.

That might look like:

     — Noticing the warmth of your coffee mug in your hands
    — Feeling your feet on the floor during a hard conversation
    — Recognizing when you’re zoning out and gently coming back
    — Crying for the first time in years
    — Laughing in a way that feels spontaneous, not performative
    — Feeling in your life, not outside of it

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we believe that reconnecting with yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do. Especially in a world that promotes constant connection, coupling, and performance, choosing presence is a radical and tender act of self-ownership.

Whether you’re navigating trauma, attachment wounds, or the quiet ache of emotional disconnection, you don’t have to stay stuck in the fog. There is a way forward, back to your body, your story, your wholeness.

Contact us today to schedule a free 20-minute consultation and begin your journey toward embodied connection, clarity, and confidence.

📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458

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References:

Ogden, P., Minton, K., & Pain, C. (2006). Trauma and the Body: A Sensorimotor Approach to Psychotherapy. W. W. Norton & Company.

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.

Van der Kolk, B. A. (2015). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Penguin Books.