When the Body Remembers: Understanding the Link Between Trauma and Chronic Pain and How Somatic Therapy Heals from Within

Discover the neuroscience behind the connection between trauma and chronic pain. Learn how somatic therapy helps regulate the nervous system, release stored tension, and restore mind-body balance. Written by trauma and somatic therapy specialists at Embodied Wellness and Recovery.

The Hidden Connection Between Trauma and Chronic Pain

Have you ever wondered why your body continues to ache even when medical tests show nothing is wrong? Why do old injuries flare during times of stress, or why does tension seem to live in your neck, jaw, or stomach? For many people, chronic pain isn’t just a physical condition; it’s the body’s way of communicating unresolved emotional wounds.

Modern neuroscience and somatic psychology suggest that chronic pain and trauma are deeply intertwined. The body remembers what the mind tries to forget. When trauma is left unresolved, it doesn’t simply vanish; it embeds itself in the nervous system, shaping posture, muscle tension, and pain perception for years to come.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in helping clients understand and heal the relationship between trauma, chronic pain, and the nervous system. Through somatic therapy, EMDR, and other body-based approaches, clients learn to listen to their bodies’ wisdom and release the stored patterns that perpetuate suffering.

How Trauma Gets Trapped in the Body

When you experience something overwhelming, such as emotional neglect, abuse, an accident, or even ongoing stress, your body activates the fight, flight, or freeze response. This survival mechanism floods the system with adrenaline and cortisol, preparing you to act or escape. But if the threat feels inescapable, the nervous system can become stuck in that state of hyperarousal or shutdown.

In other words, the trauma response doesn’t end when the event ends. The body remains in a constant state of hypervigilance or collapse. This dysregulation may manifest as:

     — Chronic muscle tension or migraines
    — Stomach pain or gastrointestinal issues
    — Lower back pain without a structural cause
    — Autoimmune flare-ups
    — Fatigue or insomnia

Research shows that trauma changes the way the brain processes pain. The amygdala (fear center) stays overactive, while the prefrontal cortex (rational brain) becomes less able to regulate emotions or sensations. The insula, which helps you perceive internal body states, can also misfire, amplifying the sensation of pain even when there’s no new injury.

The result? A body that keeps sounding the alarm long after the danger has passed.

Chronic Pain as a Nervous System Issue

Many people with chronic pain feel dismissed by traditional medical approaches. They’re told their pain is “all in their head” or simply handed medication to manage symptoms. But chronic pain isn’t imagined; it’s embodied. It’s the language of a nervous system that never got the message that it’s safe again.

From a polyvagal perspective, chronic pain reflects a dysregulated autonomic nervous system. The vagus nerve, which connects the brain to major organs, plays a crucial role in regulating stress responses. When trauma disrupts this system, the body may oscillate between sympathetic overactivation (anxiety, tension, inflammation) and dorsal vagal shutdown (numbness, exhaustion, despair).

Somatic therapy aims to restore flexibility to this system, helping the body return to a state of regulation where healing can occur.

What Is Somatic Therapy?

Somatic therapy is a body-centered approach that helps clients reconnect with their physical sensations, emotions, and inner resources. Instead of focusing solely on cognitive processing, it emphasizes the felt experience, or how emotions manifest in the body.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, somatic therapy sessions may include:

     — Body awareness and tracking: Learning to notice tension, breath, and internal cues without judgment.
    — Grounding and orienting: Reconnecting with safety through present-moment awareness.
    — Pendulation: Gently moving between states of discomfort and calm to expand the nervous system’s capacity for regulation.
    — Resourcing: Identifying internal and external supports to stabilize the body during emotional processing.
    — Gentle movement or breathwork: Releasing stored activation and restoring flow through the musculature and fascia.

Over time, this work helps the body discharge old survival energy, completing what the trauma response was unable to finish. Clients often notice not only emotional relief but also reduced physical pain, improved sleep, and greater resilience.

The Neuroscience of Somatic Healing

Neuroscience confirms what many somatic therapists have long observed: the body and brain heal together. When clients tune into physical sensations with curiosity and compassion, the insula and anterior cingulate cortex, regions involved in emotional regulation and interoception, become more active.

This mindful awareness fosters neuroplasticity, enabling the formation of new neural pathways. The prefrontal cortex can once again modulate the amygdala, calming hyperarousal and reducing pain perception. Over time, the nervous system learns that it is safe to relax.

Somatic therapy doesn’t simply manage pain; it helps the body relearn safety, releasing the chronic muscle contractions and inflammatory responses that maintain suffering.

Why Trauma-Informed Care Matters

For individuals with trauma histories, traditional physical treatments like massage or chiropractic care can sometimes feel invasive or even re-traumatizing if the body isn’t ready. Somatic therapy offers a gentle, non-invasive alternative that honors the client’s pace.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, our trauma-informed approach ensures that every session centers on consent, empowerment, and safety. Clients are guided to develop internal resources before exploring distressing sensations or memories. This helps prevent overwhelm while supporting integration at both the emotional and physiological levels.

A Holistic Approach to Chronic Pain

Healing chronic pain isn’t just about addressing the physical body; it’s about repairing the relationship between body, mind, and emotion. That’s why we integrate EMDR, mindfulness, and relational therapy into somatic work.

This integrative model supports:

     — Nervous system repair through Somatic Experiencing and EMDR resourcing
    — Emotional release through safe exploration of stored sensations
    — Relationship repair by addressing attachment wounds that perpetuate tension and fear
    — Sexual and emotional intimacy restoration, when pain or trauma has disrupted connection

When trauma healing and body awareness come together, clients rediscover a sense of ease, vitality, and wholeness.

Asking the Right Questions

If you’re struggling with chronic pain, it can help to pause and ask yourself:

      — When did my pain first begin? Was it around a time of loss, conflict, or emotional stress?
      — Do I notice my symptoms worsen when I feel anxious or triggered?
      — Have I spent more time treating the symptoms of my pain than exploring its emotional roots?

Sometimes, the body holds answers that words cannot reach.

Hope Through Somatic Awareness

Chronic pain can make life feel small, restricting movement, joy, and connection. But within your body lies the map to healing. Through somatic therapy, you can learn to listen to what your body is communicating rather than trying to silence it.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we guide clients through a process of reconnection and regulation, helping them feel safe in their bodies again. As the nervous system stabilizes, both pain and emotional distress tend to soften. The goal isn’t just the absence of pain; it’s the presence of vitality, agency, and inner peace.

Pain as a Messenger

Chronic pain is more than a medical condition; it’s often a messenger of unhealed experience. Somatic therapy offers a compassionate and scientifically grounded path toward understanding those messages and transforming them into wisdom.

Your body isn’t betraying you; it’s asking to be heard. And with the right guidance, it can finally exhale.

Contact us to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation with our team of somatic practitioners, trauma specialists, and relationship experts. Start your journey toward embodied connection and freedom from pain today.

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References

Levine, P. A. (2010). In an unspoken voice: How the body releases trauma and restores goodness. North Atlantic Books.

Porges, S. W. (2011). The polyvagal theory: Neurophysiological foundations of emotions, attachment, communication, and self-regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.

Van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Penguin Books.

Myths and Misconceptions About Trauma Therapy: What Science Really Tells Us About Healing

Explore the most common myths and misconceptions about trauma therapy. Learn how neuroscience reveals the truth about trauma treatment and discover supportive, evidence-based approaches for nervous system repair and relational healing.

Why Do So Many People Avoid Trauma Therapy?

If you are struggling with symptoms of unresolved trauma, chronic anxiety, difficulty trusting others, or feeling “stuck” in survival mode, you may have wondered whether trauma therapy could help. Yet, many people never take the first step because of negative misconceptions about what trauma therapy is and how it works.

Have you ever asked yourself:

     — Will talking about my past just make me feel worse?
     — Is trauma therapy only for people with the most extreme experiences?
    — Does therapy mean reliving everything I went through?

These fears are common, but they are often based on myths rather than science. By examining the research and neuroscience that actually support them, we can begin to unravel the false beliefs that prevent many from accessing the support they deserve.

Myth 1: Trauma Therapy Means Reliving Every Painful Memory

One of the biggest misconceptions is that trauma therapy forces people to go into great detail about the events they endured. Understandably, revisiting those memories can feel terrifying.

The truth: Modern trauma therapy is not about retraumatization. Instead, it focuses on helping the nervous system regulate in the present moment so that the body no longer reacts as though the trauma is happening now.

Neuroscience reveals that traumatic memories are stored differently from ordinary memories. When trauma is unresolved, the amygdala, the brain’s fear center, remains hyperactive. Trauma therapy uses techniques like EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, or parts work to safely process sensations and emotions without overwhelming the system.

Myth 2: Trauma Therapy Is Only for “Severe” Trauma

Another widespread belief is that trauma therapy is only for people who have survived war, disasters, or extreme abuse. While those experiences are certainly traumatic, trauma can also stem from neglect, chronic stress, attachment wounds, or repeated invalidation.

The truth: Trauma is not defined by the event alone, but by how the nervous system responds and whether it can return to a state of safety. Even experiences others might dismiss as “minor” can leave lasting imprints on the body and mind.

Avoiding therapy because your trauma “does not seem bad enough” often leaves unresolved patterns unaddressed, patterns that continue to affect relationships, self-worth, and health.

Myth 3: Talking to Friends or Family Is the Same as Therapy

Supportive loved ones can provide comfort, but personal conversations are not the same as evidence-based trauma treatment. Friends may unintentionally minimize your experience or feel overwhelmed by emotions they are not trained to hold.

The truth: Trauma therapy works with both the psychological and physiological responses to trauma. Therapists trained in neuroscience-based methods understand how to guide the body out of survival states and into a state of regulation. This kind of work is not about venting; it is about rewiring the nervous system for safety, presence, and connection.

Myth 4: Trauma Therapy Will Take Years Before Anything Changes

Another reason people hesitate to begin therapy is the fear that healing will take decades of work before any relief is felt.

The truth: While trauma recovery is not linear and requires commitment, many people begin noticing changes after a handful of sessions. This is because the brain and nervous system are plastic; they can adapt and form new pathways when given the right conditions.

Practices that promote co-regulation, mindfulness, or body awareness often yield immediate relief from symptoms such as hyperarousal, panic, or dissociation. Small shifts add up over time, and therapy can be tailored to fit each person’s goals.

Myth 5: Trauma Therapy Is Just About Talking

Traditional talk therapy has value, but unresolved trauma often lives in the body more than in words. Many people who have tried standard therapy without success assume all treatment will be the same.

The truth: Approaches such as EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, and trauma-informed CBT integrate the body, brain, and emotions. For example, somatic work helps clients become aware of physical sensations and safely discharge stress responses. EMDR uses bilateral stimulation to reprocess traumatic memories in a way that reduces their intensity. These methods are grounded in neuroscience and proven effective for trauma treatment.

The Cost of Believing the Myths

Avoiding trauma therapy because of misconceptions often prolongs suffering. Symptoms such as hypervigilance, emotional numbing, intrusive thoughts, or difficulty forming secure relationships are not simply “personality traits.” They are signs of a nervous system still stuck in a state of survival mode.

When left unaddressed, unresolved trauma can fuel anxiety, depression, substance use, and intimacy struggles. The myths surrounding trauma therapy can keep individuals from accessing life-changing support.

What Neuroscience Tells Us

Research highlights that healing trauma is not about forgetting the past but about helping the brain and body return to a state of regulation.

     — Amygdala regulation: Therapy helps quiet overactivation of the brain’s fear center.
     — Hippocampus integration: Safe processing strengthens the hippocampus, which places memories into a coherent narrative.
    — Prefrontal cortex balance: Mindfulness and somatic awareness improve the prefrontal cortex’s ability to calm emotional reactivity.

In short, trauma therapy helps shift the nervous system out of survival mode so that daily life can be lived with more presence, trust, and vitality.

Moving Beyond Misconceptions

The myths about trauma therapy often stem from outdated ideas or misunderstandings. By grounding our understanding in neuroscience and compassionate practice, it becomes clear that trauma therapy is not about reliving pain but about restoring the nervous system’s capacity for safety and connection.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in trauma-informed care that integrates EMDR, somatic therapy, and relational work. Our approach recognizes that trauma affects not only the mind but also the body, relationships, sexuality, and intimacy. Through personalized treatment, we support clients in repairing their nervous systems and building authentic connections.

Fostering Deeper Connection

Myths and misconceptions about trauma therapy prevent countless individuals from pursuing the support that could ease their suffering. Trauma therapy does not mean reliving every painful detail, nor is it reserved only for the most extreme experiences. It is about utilizing neuroscience-informed techniques to repair the nervous system, address unresolved patterns, and cultivate deeper connections within relationships and oneself.

The first step in overcoming trauma is not ignoring it; it is allowing science, compassion, and skilled support to show a different way forward.

Reach out to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation with our team of relationship experts, trauma specialists, or somatic practitioners, and start the process of cultivating deeper connection with yourself and others.

📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458

📱 Text us at (310) 210-7934

📩 Email us at admin@embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com

🔗 Visit us at www.embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com

👉 Check us out on Instagram @embodied_wellness_and_recovery

🌍 Explore our offerings at Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/laurendummit

References

1) Levine, P. A. (2010). In an Unspoken Voice: How the body releases trauma and restores goodness. North Atlantic Books.

2) Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological foundations of emotions, attachment, communication, and self-regulation. W. W. Norton & Company.

3) Shapiro, F. (2017). Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapy: Basic principles, protocols, and procedures. Guilford Publications.