Lauren Dummit-Schock 5/18/25 Lauren Dummit-Schock 5/18/25

What Your Nervous System Wants You to Know: Applying Polyvagal Theory to Everyday Life

What Your Nervous System Wants You to Know: Applying Polyvagal Theory to Everyday Life

Feeling stuck in a constant state of anxiety, shutdown, or reactivity? Learn how Polyvagal Theory explains your nervous system's response to stress and discover how somatic therapy at Embodied Wellness and Recovery can help you regulate, reconnect, and heal.

Polyvagal Theory in Everyday Life: What Your Nervous System Is Trying to Tell You

Have you ever wondered why you feel chronically on edge, emotionally shut down, or easily overwhelmed in seemingly normal situations? Why certain conversations leave you breathless, your heart racing, or your stomach in knots? These aren’t random reactions; they’re your nervous system sending vital messages about safety, threat, and survival. Thanks to Polyvagal Theory, we now have a roadmap for understanding them.

What Is Polyvagal Theory?

Developed by Dr. Stephen Porges, Polyvagal Theory explains how the vagus nerve, a key part of the parasympathetic nervous system, influences our emotional and physiological states. Rather than viewing the nervous system as binary (fight-or-flight vs. rest-and-digest), Polyvagal Theory introduces a third state: dorsal vagal shutdown, a freeze-like state of collapse.

The three primary nervous system states are:

1. Sympathetic Activation (Fight or Flight): Anxiety, agitation, anger, racing thoughts

2. Dorsal Vagal Shutdown (Freeze): Numbness, disconnection, fatigue, depression

3. Ventral Vagal State (Safety and Connection): Calm, presence, attunement, engagement

Understanding which state you're in can illuminate not only your emotional experience but also the health of your relationships, sexuality, and ability to feel connected to yourself and others.

Are You Stuck in Survival Mode?

If you live with trauma, chronic stress, or unresolved attachment wounds, your nervous system may default to high-alert patterns. This is especially true for individuals with complex trauma histories or those who feel stuck in sympathetic nervous system arousal:

How Polyvagal Theory Applies to Intimacy and Sexuality

If you've ever felt like your body "shuts down" during sex, or if conflict with your partner sends you spiraling, Polyvagal Theory can help make sense of it. Safety and connection are prerequisites for desire and vulnerability. If your nervous system is in a defensive state, it will prioritize survival over pleasure.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we specialize in working with individuals and couples to restore nervous system safety in the context of intimacy. Whether you’re navigating sexual trauma, low desire, or disconnection in your relationship, we approach the healing process with compassion, neuroscience, and somatic tools.

Signs You May Benefit from Nervous System-Informed Therapy

— Difficulty setting boundaries without guilt or fear

— Feeling chronically overwhelmed or easily triggered

— Shutdown, avoidance, or numbness during intimacy

— A tendency to people-please or over-function in relationships

These aren’t personality flaws. They’re adaptive survival strategies rooted in nervous system dysregulation. With the right support, they can shift.

Listening to What Your Body Has Been Trying to Say

Your nervous system is not the enemy; it’s an innately wise, protective system shaped by your history. But you don’t have to stay stuck in the same loops. Through somatic therapy, polyvagal education, and compassionate support, it is possible to build a felt sense of safety, foster intimacy, and feel at home in your own body.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we offer trauma-informed, nervous system-focused therapy that supports deep, sustainable healing. Whether you're seeking help with anxiety, intimacy, or trauma recovery, our team is here to guide you toward regulation, connection, and embodied wholeness.

Reach out to schedule a free 20-minute consultation with our team of top-rated therapists and take the next step toward a more regulated nervous system today.

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References:

Dana, D. (2018). The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation. New York: W.W. Norton & Company.

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. New York: W.W. Norton & Company.

Van der Kolk, B. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. New York: Viking.

Lauren Dummit-Schock 4/24/25 Lauren Dummit-Schock 4/24/25

Embodied Healing: How Yoga and Movement Deepen Somatic Therapy

Embodied Healing: How Yoga and Movement Deepen Somatic Therapy

Experiencing symptoms of trauma or nervous system dysregulation? Discover how integrating yoga and movement into somatic therapy can support emotional regulation, embodiment, and healing at the root level.

When Talk Therapy Isn’t Enough

Have you ever felt like you’ve intellectually processed your trauma, but your body still carries it? Do you find yourself easily overwhelmed, shutting down in conflict, or chronically exhausted despite doing "the work"?

That’s because trauma isn’t just a memory—it’s a physiological imprint. The nervous system remembers. And true healing often requires more than talking.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we help clients address trauma, addiction, intimacy issues, and nervous system dysregulation through an integrative, body-based lens. One of our most powerful tools? Incorporating yoga and movement into somatic therapy.

Why the Body Needs to Move to Heal

Unresolved trauma disrupts the body’s natural regulation system. It can keep the nervous system stuck in fight, flight, freeze, or fawn. This results in:

– Chronic anxiety or emotional reactivity

– Numbness or disconnection from the body

– Digestive and immune system issues

– Difficulty feeling safe in relationships

Research in neuroscience and somatics shows that movement helps process and release trauma stored in the body’s tissues and nervous system.

Movement creates new patterns. It teaches the body that safety, presence, and connection are possible.

The Role of Yoga in Somatic Therapy

Yoga is more than stretching or mindfulness. When offered in a trauma-informed way, it becomes a gateway to embodied awareness and emotional regulation.

Trauma-Informed Yoga Supports:

– Interoception (awareness of internal body sensations)

– Vagal tone (the strength of the vagus nerve, which regulates stress)

– Self-regulation through breath, posture, and presence

– Safe exploration of boundaries and agency

Yoga postures help release stored tension, while breathwork and mindful attention calm the limbic system and increase activity in the prefrontal cortex—the brain’s center for regulation and decision-making (Van der Kolk, 2014).

Types of Movement That Support Somatic Healing

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we use multiple movement-based modalities to support nervous system health:

1. Trauma-Sensitive Yoga

– Focuses on choice, invitational language, and body autonomy

– Encourages slow, grounding movements to restore safety and presence

2. Somatic Movement

– Gentle, intentional movements that help discharge stored trauma responses

– Used to support stuck patterns in the body or soothe hyperarousal

3. Dance and Free Movement

– Helps express and release emotions nonverbally

– Facilitates access to joy, vitality, and empowerment

4. Breath-Informed Movement

– Syncing breath with movement activates the parasympathetic nervous system

– Reduces anxiety, lowers heart rate, and deepens body-mind connection

Common Questions We Hear:

“Why do I feel like crying after yoga?”
Movement accesses parts of the nervous system that words often can’t reach. As tension releases, emotions that were held in the body may surface.

“Is this just another fitness trend?”
No. Trauma-informed yoga and somatic movement are clinically backed, neuroscience-informed practices used in therapeutic settings worldwide (Porges, 2011).

“What if I feel numb or disconnected from my body?”
That’s exactly where somatic movement can help—by gently rebuilding the bridge between sensation and self.

What Healing Through Movement Can Look Like

– Feeling safer in your own skin

– Responding to triggers with curiosity instead of reactivity

– Reclaiming access to pleasure, play, and full expression

– Regaining trust in your body’s cues

– Cultivating resilience from the inside out

Healing doesn’t just happen in your head. It happens in your breath. Your posture. The way you move through space.

When the body is invited into therapy, the whole system begins to shift.

Why We Integrate Movement at Embodied Wellness and Recovery

We believe the body is not just the site of trauma; it’s also the site of healing. Our team combines somatic therapy, EMDR, yoga therapy, and psychoeducation to support our clients in:

– Regulating their nervous systems

– Releasing stored trauma

– Restoring connection to self and others

– Rebuilding intimacy from a place of safety

Whether you’re working through trauma, intimacy issues, anxiety, or addiction, movement can be a profound ally on the path to healing.

You Deserve to Feel at Home in Your Body

Your symptoms are not signs of weakness. They are messages from a body that has been trying to keep you safe. With gentle movement, breath, and support, your system can learn something new.

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we’re here to support you on your path to recovery—one breath, one movement, one moment of awareness at a time. Reach out today to schedule a free 20-minute consultation with our team of top-rated somatic practitioners, trauma specialists, recovery coaches, or relationship experts.