The Secret to Lasting Love: Why Friendship Is the Foundation of Long-Term Romantic Success
The Secret to Lasting Love: Why Friendship Is the Foundation of Long-Term Romantic Success
Discover why friendship is one of the strongest predictors of long-term relationship success. Learn how emotional intimacy, trust, friendship, attachment, and neuroscience influence lasting love and relationship satisfaction.
Is Your Partner Also Your Friend?
When people think about romantic relationships, they often focus on:
— Chemistry
— Attraction
— Passion
— Shared goals
While these factors certainly matter, decades of relationship research suggest that one of the strongest predictors of long-term relationship satisfaction may be something far simpler:
Friendship.
In fact, renowned relationship researcher John Gottman has spent decades studying couples and repeatedly found that strong friendships form the foundation of healthy, lasting relationships.
Yet man couples find themselves asking:
— Why do we feel more like roommates than partners?
— Where did our connection go?
— Why don't we talk like we used to?
— Why do I feel lonely even though I'm in a relationship?
— Why does it seem like we're always discussing logistics rather than truly connecting?
If these questions feel familiar, you are not alone in wondering whether friendship has quietly faded from your relationship.
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we frequently help individuals and couples rediscover the power of friendship as a pathway toward deeper intimacy, emotional safety, and relational resilience.
Friendship Is More Than Enjoying the Same Activities
When people hear the word friendship, they often think of shared hobbies or common interests. While those can be important, friendship in a romantic relationship runs much deeper.
Healthy friendship includes:
— Emotional curiosity
— Trust
— Affection
— Admiration
— Playfulness
— Emotional support
— Mutual respect
— Genuine interest in one another's inner worlds
A strong friendship allows partners to feel seen, understood, and valued beyond their roles as spouses, parents, or co-managers of daily life. Friendship creates a sense of companionship that helps sustain relationships through inevitable periods of stress and change.
What Research Says About Friendship and Relationship Satisfaction
Research consistently demonstrates that friendship is one of the most important predictors of marital satisfaction and long-term relationship success.
According to Gottman's research, happy couples maintain what he calls a strong "friendship system." These couples actively cultivate:
— Affection
— Admiration
— Emotional connection
— Curiosity about one another
— Shared meaning (Gottman, 2016).
Rather than assuming they already know everything about their partner, they continue learning about each other's evolving thoughts, dreams, fears, and experiences.
Research suggests that couples who maintain emotional friendship experience:
— Higher relationship satisfaction
— Greater emotional intimacy
— Stronger sexual satisfaction
— Improved conflict resolution
— Increased relationship stability
(Gottman & Silver, 2015).
In other words, friendship is not merely a nice bonus in healthy relationships. It may be one of the primary mechanisms through which relationships remain resilient.
The Neuroscience of Friendship and Connection
From a neuroscience perspective, friendship serves a critical regulatory function. Human beings are wired for connection. The nervous system continuously scans for cues of safety and danger.
When we experience emotional attunement from a trusted partner, the brain often releases neurochemicals associated with connection and well-being, including:
— Oxytocin
— Dopamine
— Serotonin
These chemicals can support:
— Emotional regulation
— Stress reduction
— Bonding
— Feelings of safety
Research suggests that emotionally supportive relationships can buffer the effects of stress and improve both mental and physical health (Coan et al., 2006).
When friendship is present, partners often become sources of co-regulation.
A reassuring touch.
A shared laugh.
A meaningful conversation.
These seemingly small moments can have profound effects on the nervous system.
Why Friendship Often Fades
Many couples do not intentionally stop being friends.
Life simply becomes busy.
Over time, conversations may become dominated by:
— Finances
— Schedules
— Responsibilities
— Household management
The relationship gradually shifts from connection to coordination. The problem is that emotional intimacy requires ongoing investment.
Without intentional friendship-building, partners can begin feeling:
— Disconnected
— Lonely
— Misunderstood
— Emotionally neglected
Even when they continue functioning well as a team. This is one reason many couples report feeling isolated despite living under the same roof.
Friendship Creates Emotional Safety
One of the most important functions of friendship is emotional safety.
Emotional safety develops when partners consistently experience:
— Acceptance
— Responsiveness
— Validation
— Empathy
— Respect
When emotional safety is present, individuals are more likely to:
— Express vulnerability
— Seek support
— Remain emotionally engaged
For individuals with attachment wounds or trauma histories, emotional safety can be especially important.
Many people enter relationships carrying fears of:
— Rejection
— Emotional neglect
Friendship helps counter these fears by creating experiences of consistent care and connection.
Friendship and Sexual Intimacy
Many couples assume that friendship and romance exist separately. In reality, the two are often deeply intertwined. Research suggests that emotional intimacy frequently enhances sexual intimacy (Brock & Jennings, 2007).
When partners feel:
— Emotionally connected
— Respected
— Appreciated
— Understood
They often experience greater desire and relational satisfaction. Friendship creates an atmosphere in which vulnerability feels safer. It allows intimacy to become more than physical attraction. It becomes an extension of emotional connection. This is particularly important in long-term relationships where novelty naturally decreases over time. Friendship often becomes the glue that sustains desire through life's inevitable seasons.
Small Moments Matter More Than Grand Gestures
Many people believe stronger relationships require dramatic changes. In reality, relationship research suggests that small moments of connection often matter most.
Examples include:
— Expressing appreciation
— Sharing humor
— Showing curiosity
— Checking in emotionally
— Spending intentional time together
— Responding positively to bids for connection
These moments may appear insignificant. Yet over time, they create the emotional infrastructure of friendship. A strong relationship is rarely built through occasional grand gestures alone.
It is built through thousands of small interactions that communicate:
"I see you."
"I care about you."
"You matter to me."
Rebuilding Friendship in Your Relationship
If friendship has faded, it can be rebuilt.
Consider asking yourself:
— When was the last time we laughed together?
— How often do we discuss topics beyond logistics?
— Do I know what currently excites or worries my partner?
— How curious am I about their inner world?
— When was the last time we spent meaningful time together without distractions?
Small steps can create meaningful change.
Try:
— Scheduling regular date nights
— Taking walks together
— Asking open-ended questions
— Expressing daily appreciation
— Sharing new experiences
— Practicing active listening
The goal is not perfection. The goal is cultivating emotional closeness through consistent connection.
How Therapy Can Help
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we help couples strengthen the friendship at the heart of their relationship.
Through a trauma-informed, neuroscience-based approach, couples can learn to:
— Improve communication
— Rebuild trust
— Increase emotional safety
— Understand attachment patterns
— Strengthen friendship and connection
When couples feel emotionally connected, many other relationship challenges become easier to navigate.
Curiosity, Support, and Connection
Passion may spark a relationship. Commitment may sustain it. But friendship often helps it flourish. When partners remain curious about one another, support each other's growth, and maintain emotional connection, relationships become more resilient, satisfying, and fulfilling. Long-term romantic success is rarely built on attraction alone. It is built on a foundation of friendship that continues evolving throughout the lifespan of the relationship.
Reach out to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation with our team of therapists, trauma specialists, somatic practitioners, or relationship experts, and start working towards integrative, embodied healing today.
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References
1) Brock, L. J., & Jennings, G. (2007). Sexuality and intimacy. Handbook of gerontology: Evidence-based approaches to theory, practice, and policy, 244-268.
2) Coan, J. A., Schaefer, H. S., & Davidson, R. J. (2006). Lending a hand: Social regulation of the neural response to threat. Psychological Science, 17(12), 1032-1039.
3) Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (2015). The seven principles for making marriage work. Harmony Books.
4) Gottman, J. S. (Ed.). (2016). The marriage clinic casebook. WW Norton & Company.
5) Reis, H. T., & Gable, S. L. (2015). Responsiveness. Current Opinion in Psychology, 1, 67-71.
6) Siegel, D. J. (2012). The developing mind: How relationships and the brain interact to shape who we are. Guilford Press.
The Difference Between Solving Problems and Providing Emotional Support: The Neuroscience of Connection, Communication, and Conflict in Relationships
The Difference Between Solving Problems and Providing Emotional Support: The Neuroscience of Connection, Communication, and Conflict in Relationships
Why do couples struggle when one partner wants solutions, and the other wants emotional support? Learn the neuroscience behind emotional validation, nervous system regulation, communication, attachment, and healthy relationship boundaries.
Why Do So Many Couples Feel Misunderstood During Conflict?
Have you ever opened up emotionally to your partner only to receive advice when what you truly wanted was comfort?
Have you ever thought:
— “Why are they trying to fix me instead of listening?”
— “Why does every emotional conversation turn into problem-solving?”
— “Why do I feel emotionally dismissed?”
— “Why does my partner get frustrated when I simply need support?”
— “Why do our conversations escalate into conflict even when we both care about each other?”
One of the most common yet misunderstood relationship dynamics involves the difference between:
— Solving a problem and
— Providing emotional support
Many couples deeply love one another but repeatedly miss each other emotionally because they are operating from different nervous system needs during moments of distress.
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we frequently help couples understand how trauma, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, emotional communication patterns, and blurred relational boundaries contribute to conflict, emotional disconnection, and misunderstanding. Often, the issue is not a lack of love. It is a lack of attunement.
The Difference Between Emotional Support and Problem Solving
Problem-solving focuses on:
— Fixing
— Strategizing
— Analyzing
— Offering solutions
— Reducing uncertainty
— Restoring control
Emotional support focuses on:
— Listening
— Validating
— Attuning
— Emotionally staying present
— Creating safety
— Helping someone feel emotionally understood
Both are valuable. The challenge arises when partners offer solutions instead of the emotional connection that is actually needed.
For example:
Problem Solving
“Here’s what you should do.”
“You are overthinking this.”
“Why don’t you just talk to them?”
“There’s an easy fix.”
Emotional Support
“That sounds really overwhelming.”
“I can understand why you feel hurt.”
“I’m here with you.”
“Tell me more about what this feels like.”
One approach primarily addresses the situation. The other addresses the nervous system.
Why People Try to Solve Instead of Support
Many individuals genuinely believe they are helping when they offer solutions.
In fact, problem-solving is often rooted in:
— Care
— Love
— Anxiety reduction
— Helplessness
— Discomfort with emotional distress
Some people become solution-oriented because:
— Emotions were minimized in their family system
— Vulnerability felt unsafe
— They learned to value productivity over emotional processing
— Emotional discomfort triggered anxiety
— They feel responsible for fixing pain quickly
For some individuals, witnessing a loved one’s distress activates their own nervous system discomfort. Problem-solving becomes an unconscious attempt to regulate anxiety.
The Neuroscience of Emotional Validation
From a neuroscience perspective, emotional attunement and validation help regulate the nervous system. Research related to attachment and interpersonal neurobiology suggests that humans are biologically wired for co-regulation through emotionally safe connection (Siegel, 2012).
When someone feels:
— Emotionally seen
— Understood
— Validated
— Emotionally accompanied
The nervous system often becomes less defensive and less dysregulated.
Emotional validation can reduce:
— Stress responses
— Emotional flooding
— Shame
— Loneliness
In contrast, feeling emotionally dismissed or “fixed” too quickly can unintentionally increase:
— Defensiveness
— Shame
— Frustration
— Emotional disconnection
Why “Fixing” Can Feel Invalidating
Many people interpret immediate advice giving as:
— “Your emotions are a problem.”
— “You should not feel this way.”
— “Your distress makes me uncomfortable.”
— “I need you to stop feeling this.”
Even when the intention is loving, the emotional impact may feel distancing. This is especially true for individuals with trauma histories or attachment wounds. If someone grew up feeling emotionally unheard, dismissed, criticized, or emotionally abandoned, they may become highly sensitive to interactions that feel emotionally minimizing.
Trauma and Emotional Safety in Relationships
Trauma often affects how people experience emotional connection and support.
Some trauma survivors learned:
— Emotions overwhelm people
— Vulnerability creates rejection
— Emotional expression is unsafe
— They must solve problems alone
— Needing support is a weakness
Others learned to survive by becoming hyperfunctional problem solvers themselves.
This can create relationship dynamics where:
— One partner seeks an emotional connection
— The other seeks emotional control through fixing
Both individuals may care deeply for each other while still feeling emotionally disconnected.
Emotional Support Is Not the Same as Enabling
One common misconception is that emotional support means agreeing with everything someone says or avoiding accountability.
Healthy emotional support does not require:
— Rescuing
— Overfunctioning
— Emotional caretaking
— Abandoning boundaries
Instead, emotional support means:
— Emotionally staying present
— Validating feelings
— Listening without immediately correcting
— Creating emotional safety
Problem-solving can still happen. But timing matters.
The Nervous System Often Needs Regulation Before Solutions
From a Polyvagal perspective, the nervous system processes information differently depending on whether it feels safe or threatened (Porges, 2011). When someone is emotionally flooded, anxious, or dysregulated, the brain is often less capable of:
— Reasoning
— Perspective taking
— Processing solutions
— Integrating advice
In many situations, emotional connection must come before effective problem-solving.
This is why phrases such as:
— “I’m here.”
— “I understand.”
— “That sounds painful.”
— “You make sense to me.”
can feel profoundly regulating. The nervous system calms through connection.
Blurred Boundaries and Relationship Conflict
Many couples become stuck in cycles where:
— One partner feels emotionally unheard
— The other feels chronically responsible for fixing everything
This often creates:
— Resentment
— Emotional exhaustion
— Withdrawal
— Communication breakdown
Healthy relational boundaries involve understanding:
— When emotional support is needed
— When problem-solving is needed
— When advice is welcome
— When emotional presence matters more
Sometimes asking: “Do you want support right now or help solving this?” can dramatically improve communication.
How Couples Can Improve Emotional Attunement
Pause Before Offering Advice
Ask yourself:
— “What does my partner emotionally need right now?”
— “Am I listening or trying to control discomfort?”
Validate Before Solving
Validation does not mean agreement.
It means acknowledging emotional reality.
Learn to Tolerate Emotional Discomfort
Some individuals rush to fix because distress feels intolerable.
Emotional presence often requires slowing down.
Clarify Needs Explicitly
Encourage conversations such as:
— “I need comfort right now.”
— “I’m not asking you to fix this.”
— “Can you just listen for a minute?”
Strengthen Nervous System Regulation
The more each partner becomes individually regulated, the easier emotional attunement often becomes relationally.
How Therapy Can Help
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we help couples explore:
— Communication patterns
— Emotional attunement
— Attachment dynamics
— Conflict cycles
— Emotional safety
— Intimacy struggles
Treatment may include:
— Attachment-focused interventions
— EMDR
— Nervous system regulation work
— Communication skill building
As couples learn to differentiate between fixing and emotionally supporting, many experience:
— Deeper intimacy
— Reduced conflict
— Improved communication
— Increased emotional safety
— Stronger relational connection
Different Nervous System Needs
Problem-solving and emotional support are both important in healthy relationships. But they serve different nervous system needs. Many people do not need immediate solutions during moments of distress.
They need:
— Emotional presence
— Attunement
— Validation
— Connection
— Reassurance that their emotional experience matters
Sometimes the most healing response is not: “Here’s how to fix it.”
Sometimes it is: “I’m here with you while you move through it.”
Reach out to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation with our team of therapists, trauma specialists, somatic practitioners, or relationship experts, and start working towards integrative, embodied healing today.
📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458
📱 Text us at (310) 210-7934
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References
1) Gottman, J. M., & Silver, N. (2015). The seven principles for making marriage work. Harmony Books.
2) Porges, S. W. (2011). The polyvagal theory: Neurophysiological foundations of emotions, attachment, communication, and self-regulation. Norton.
3) Siegel, D. J. (2012). The developing mind: How relationships and the brain interact to shape who we are. Guilford Press.
4) Sue Johnson, S. M. (2019). Attachment theory in practice: Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) with individuals, couples, and families. Guilford Press.
Understanding Nonverbal Emotional Cues in Couples: The Neuroscience of Attunement, Conflict, and Emotional Connection
Understanding Nonverbal Emotional Cues in Couples: The Neuroscience of Attunement, Conflict, and Emotional Connection
Discover how nonverbal emotional cues affect communication, conflict, intimacy, and emotional safety in relationships. Learn the neuroscience behind facial expressions, tone of voice, body language, and nervous system attunement in couples therapy.
Why Do Couples So Often Misunderstand Each Other?
Have you ever said, “That’s not what I meant,” after your partner reacted strongly to your tone or facial expression?
Have you ever felt hurt because your partner seemed cold, dismissive, distant, irritated, or emotionally unavailable, even though they insisted nothing was wrong?
Do you find yourself constantly trying to “read” your partner’s mood, body language, silence, or energy?
Many relationship conflicts are not caused solely by words. They are shaped by nonverbal emotional communication.
In fact, research suggests that much of human emotional communication occurs nonverbally through facial expressions, posture, tone of voice, eye contact, nervous system activation, touch, timing, and body language. Couples often believe they are arguing about chores, finances, parenting, sex, or communication. But beneath many conflicts is a deeper issue: emotional attunement.
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we frequently help couples understand how trauma, attachment wounds, nervous system dysregulation, and unconscious nonverbal cues shape emotional connection, intimacy, and conflict patterns.
What Are Nonverbal Emotional Cues?
Nonverbal emotional cues are the subtle signals people communicate without words.
These include:
— Facial expressions
— Tone of voice
— Eye contact
— Physical proximity
— Body posture
— Touch
— Timing
— Energy shifts
— Silence
— Facial tension
— Vocal intensity
Humans are biologically wired to constantly monitor these cues.
Long before language fully developed, survival depended on accurately reading others' emotional signals. As a result, the brain remains highly sensitive to perceived changes in emotional safety and connection. This is especially true in intimate relationships.
The Neuroscience of Emotional Attunement
From a neuroscience perspective, emotional attunement refers to the ability to recognize, interpret, and respond to another person’s emotional state.
Healthy attunement helps individuals feel:
— Seen
— Emotionally safe
— Understood
— Connected
— Valued
Research involving mirror neurons suggests humans are neurologically wired for interpersonal resonance and emotional synchronization (Iacoboni, 2009). Additionally, Polyvagal Theory proposes that the nervous system continuously scans for cues of safety or danger through a process called neuroception (Porges, 2011).
This means your partner’s:
— Facial expression
— Tone
— Eye contact
— Emotional responsiveness
— Tension level
— Body posture
may unconsciously influence your nervous system state.
You may logically know your partner loves you, while your body simultaneously interprets emotional distance, criticism, withdrawal, or irritation as danger.
Why Nonverbal Miscommunication Happens in Relationships
Many couples unintentionally send mixed emotional signals.
For example:
— Saying “I’m fine” with an angry tone
— Appearing emotionally distant due to stress or exhaustion
— Crossing arms defensively during conflict
— Avoiding eye contact during vulnerable conversations
— Sighing heavily without realizing its emotional impact
— Speaking sharply while believing they are being “direct.”
Often, partners respond more strongly to the nervous system message beneath the words than to the actual words themselves.
One partner may think: “I was just tired.”
The other partner’s nervous system may interpret: “You are upset with me.” “You do not want connection.” “I am emotionally unsafe right now.”
These misunderstandings can escalate quickly when couples are already emotionally dysregulated.
Trauma and Hypervigilance to Emotional Cues
Individuals with trauma histories are often especially sensitive to nonverbal communication.
If someone grew up around:
— Emotional unpredictability
— Rage
— Neglect
— Emotional withdrawal
— Inconsistency
— Conflict
Their nervous system may become hypervigilant to subtle shifts in mood, tone, or expression.
This can create patterns such as:
— Overanalyzing facial expressions
— Assuming rejection quickly
— Fear of conflict
— Emotional shutdown
— Anxious attachment
— Walking on eggshells
Research suggests trauma can increase amygdala activation, making individuals more sensitive to perceived interpersonal threat (Van der Kolk, 2014). As a result, some partners may react intensely to emotional cues that others barely notice.
The Role of Tone of Voice in Couples Communication
The tone of voice often conveys more emotional information than words alone.
A simple phrase like: “Okay”
can sound:
— Loving
— Annoyed
— Dismissive
— Sarcastic
— Hurt
— Emotionally disconnected
Depending on vocal tone and nervous system state.
Research by relationship expert Dr. John Gottman found that emotional tone and physiological regulation strongly predict relationship satisfaction and conflict outcomes (Gottman & Levenson, 2000). When couples become emotionally flooded, their nervous systems often shift into fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown responses.
This may appear as:
— Raised voices
— Defensiveness
— Withdrawal
— Contempt
— Emotional numbness
— Stonewalling
In these moments, the nervous system becomes less able to accurately interpret emotions.
Emotional Safety and Nonverbal Connection
Couples who feel emotionally connected often engage in subtle regulating behaviors without consciously realizing it.
Examples include:
— Soft eye contact
— Affectionate touch
— Gentle tone
— Responsive facial expressions
— Leaning toward each other
— Relaxed body posture
— Validating expressions
— Warm vocal pacing
These cues help regulate the nervous system and increase emotional safety.
In contrast, emotional disconnection often involves:
— Flat tone
— Lack of responsiveness
— Emotional absence
— Tension
— Rigid posture
— Minimal eye contact
Sometimes, couples focus heavily on “communication skills” while overlooking the nervous system dynamics underneath communicationitself.
Why Emotional Attunement Matters for Intimacy
Emotional attunement is deeply connected to:
— Trust
— Vulnerability
— Attachment
— Emotional safety
Many couples struggling sexually are also struggling emotionally. When partners feel chronically misunderstood, emotionally dismissed, criticized, or unsafe, the nervous system may become less receptive to closeness and vulnerability. From a somatic perspective, intimacy requires a degree of nervous system openness and safety. Emotional attunement helps create the physiological conditions necessary for deeper connection.
How Couples Can Improve Nonverbal Communication
The good news is that emotional attunement can be strengthened. Small shifts in awareness often create meaningful relational change.
Slow Down During Conflict
When nervous systems become overwhelmed, communication accuracy declines dramatically. Pausing, breathing, and regulating before responding can reduce escalation.
Become Curious About Emotional Cues
Instead of assuming intent, couples can ask:
— “You seem tense. Are you feeling stressed?”
— “Your tone sounded hurt to me. Is that what you were feeling?”
— “Did something I said feel critical?”
Curiosity often reduces defensiveness.
Improve Nervous System Regulation
Individuals who feel chronically dysregulated may unintentionally communicate tension, irritation, or emotional withdrawal through their body languageand tone.
Somatic practices, mindfulness, therapy, sleep support, and stress reduction can improve emotional presence.
Increase Repair Attempts
Research shows healthy couples are not conflict-free. They are better at repair (Meyer, 2012).
Small gestures matter:
— Softening tone
— Making eye contact
— Reaching for touch
— Validating feelings
— Expressing warmth
How Therapy Can Help Couples Improve Attunement
At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we help couples understand how trauma, attachment dynamics, nervous system activation, and nonverbal communication patterns affect emotional and relational functioning.
Treatment may include:
— EMDR
— Nervous system regulation work
— Intimacy-focused interventions
As couples become more emotionally attuned, many report:
— Reduced conflict
— Greater emotional safety
— Improved communication
— Increased trust
— Deeperintimacy
— Stronger connection
Toward Deeper Emotional Attunement and Connection
Relationships are shaped not only by what partners say, but by how their nervous systems communicate beneath the surface. Facial expressions, tone of voice, body posture, emotional responsiveness, and nervous system regulation all influence how safe, connected, and understood people feel in intimate relationships.
Understanding nonverbal emotional cues can help couples move away from cycles of misunderstanding and toward deeper emotional attunement and connection. Sometimes the most powerful communication in a relationship is not verbal at all.It is the nervous system’s quiet experience of feeling emotionally safe in another person’s presence.
Reach out to schedule a complimentary 20-minute consultation with our team of therapists, trauma specialists, somatic practitioners, or relationship experts, and start working towards integrative, embodied healing today.
📞 Call us at (310) 651-8458
📱 Text us at (310) 210-7934
📩 Email us at admin@embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com
🔗 Visit us at www.embodiedwellnessandrecovery.com
👉 Check us out on Instagram @embodied_wellness_and_recovery
🌍 Explore our offerings at Linktr.ee: https://linktr.ee/laurendummit
References
1) Gottman, J. M., & Levenson, R. W. (2000). The timing of divorce: Predicting when a couple will divorce over a 14-year period. Journal of Marriage and Family, 62(3), 737-745.
2) Iacoboni, M. (2009). Mirroring people: The science of empathy and how we connect with others. Picador.
3) Meyer, J. (2012). Conflict Free Living: How to Build Healthy Relationships for Life. Charisma Media.
4) Porges, S. W. (2011). The polyvagal theory: Neurophysiological foundations of emotions, attachment, communication, and self-regulation. Norton.
5) Van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The body keeps the score: Brain, mind, and body in the healing of trauma. Viking.