Lauren Dummit-Schock Lauren Dummit-Schock

The Science of Presence: How Your Energy Speaks Before You Do

 The Science of Presence: How Your Energy Speaks Before You Do

Your body broadcasts emotion, energy, and intention before you ever say a word. Learn how the heart’s electromagnetic field, nervous system regulation, and somatic awareness impact your relationships, communication, and emotional well-being.

Did you know your heart emits an electromagnetic field up to three feet outside your body?

That’s not a metaphor; it’s measurable. Research from the HeartMath Institute has shown that the heart produces the strongest rhythmic electromagnetic field in the body. And this field is not only real; it shifts and responds based on your emotional state.

This means that even before you speak, your presence is already communicating.

Your energy precedes your words.

Your body is telling a story long before you open your mouth.

You Are Always Communicating, Even in Silence

So often, we think communication starts with words. But in reality, it begins in the nervous system.

When you’re calm and grounded, your body signals safety to others. When you’re anxious, guarded, or overwhelmed, your heart rate, posture, facial expressions, and even your subtle energy field broadcast those cues outward, whether you’re conscious of it or not. This is called neuroception, your body’s ability to detect safety or danger without conscious awareness (Porges, 2011). It’s how we pick up on “vibes,” even when nothing explicit is being said.

The Body as a Field of Wisdom

Your body is more than just flesh and bones. It is a living, breathing broadcast of emotion, energy, and intention. When you walk into a room, your nervous system is already engaging with others. Your presence becomes a form of communication.

When you feel regulated, aligned, and authentic, you naturally emanate calm and clarity.

When you’re dysregulated, fragmented, or disconnected from your truth, that too is felt.

In somatic therapy, we teach clients how to listen to these signals, not just in others, but in themselves. Because embodiment is the first step to congruent communication. When you know what you’re feeling and can stay with it, you can offer your presence without distortion.

Regulating Your Nervous System to Shift Your Energy Field

Want to change how others experience your presence? Start by regulating your nervous system. Here’s how:

1. Breathe Coherently

Slow, rhythmic breathing (like inhaling for 4 counts, exhaling for 6) balances the sympathetic and parasympathetic branches of the autonomic nervous system (McCraty & Zayas, 2014).

2. Ground Through the Senses

Feel your feet on the floor. Notice the sounds around you. Sensory awareness anchors you in the present moment, which translates to a more grounded presence.

3. Feel Without Judgment

Allow emotional sensations in the body to arise and move without immediately fixing or suppressing them. This builds emotional tolerance and coherence.

4. Practice Somatic Awareness

Learn the language of your body. Notice posture, breath,and micro-movements. These subtle shifts shape how you show up.

Your Presence Is Power

If you’ve been doubting your impact…

If you’ve been feeling invisible or unsure whether your voice matters…

Let this be your reminder:

You are already communicating.

Your nervous system is a tuning fork.

Your heart is a transmitter.

Even your silence is speaking.

You don’t have to “do” more to matter.

You already are.

Ready to Embody the Power of Your Presence?

At Embodied Wellness and Recovery, we help you reconnect with your authentic self by healing trauma, regulating your nervous system, and learning to trust your body’s wisdom. Whether you’re navigating anxiety, relationship struggles,  or emotional burnout, our somatic, neuroscience-informed approach supports deep, lasting transformation.

Contact us today to schedule a free 20-minute consultation with our team of top-rated somatic practitioners, trauma specialists, or relationship experts, and begin your journey toward embodied connection, clarity, and confidence.



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References:

HeartMath Institute. (n.d.). Science of the Heart: Exploring the Role of the Heart in Human Performance. McCraty, R., & Zayas, M. A. (2014). Cardiac coherence, self-regulation, autonomic stability, and psychosocial well-being. Frontiers in Psychology, 5, 1090. 

Porges, S. W. (2011). The Polyvagal Theory: Neurophysiological Foundations of Emotions, Attachment, Communication, and Self-Regulation. W.W. Norton & Company.

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